{"id":736,"date":"2011-04-27T23:14:40","date_gmt":"2011-04-27T21:14:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/fascinating-america.com\/blog\/?p=736"},"modified":"2015-04-05T23:16:22","modified_gmt":"2015-04-05T21:16:22","slug":"queen-of-the-princesses","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/fascinating-america.com\/blog\/queen-of-the-princesses\/","title":{"rendered":"Queen of the princesses"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Every little girl wants to be a princess \u2014 and my five-year-old niece is no exception. <span id=\"tooltip5521a5ab7da63\">If she had her way<\/span> (which she often does), she&#8217;d wear a <span id=\"tooltip5521a5ab7de49\">fancy<\/span> dress and a <span id=\"tooltip5521a5ab7e231\">tiara<\/span> every day. <span id=\"tooltip5521a5ab7e61a\">It goes without saying<\/span> that she&#8217;d always be the center of attention.<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s something deep in the female psyche that <span id=\"tooltip5521a5ab7ea01\">responds to<\/span> <span id=\"tooltip5521a5ab7ede9\">fairy tales<\/span> \u2014 at least to the modern <span id=\"tooltip5521a5ab7f1d1\">sanitized<\/span> versions \u2014 and to <span id=\"tooltip5521a5ab7f5b9\">pageantry<\/span>.<\/p>\n<p>As kids, my sister and I watched the wedding of Prince Charles and Diana Spencer in 1981. I think we felt a connection to the British royal family because our grandmother looked exactly like Queen Elizabeth. But we had very different impressions of the ceremony itself. I saw it as an arranged marriage between an <span id=\"tooltip5521a5ab7f9a1\">awkward<\/span> millionaire and an <span id=\"tooltip5521a5ab7fd89\">androgynous<\/span> <span id=\"tooltip5521a5ab80170\">noblewoman<\/span>, carefully choreographed according to <span id=\"tooltip5521a5ab8055a\">ancient<\/span> custom and spoken about in very <span id=\"tooltip5521a5ab80940\">stilted<\/span> English. My sister, instead, was <span id=\"tooltip5521a5ab80d29\">spellbound<\/span> by the length of Diana&#8217;s wedding dress, the size of St Paul&#8217;s Cathedral and the number of guests who had been invited.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ll be interested to hear what her daughter thinks of real-life royalty if they watch the current royal wedding together. The Disney company has given her enough opportunities to practice.<\/p>\n<p>At a <span id=\"tooltip5521a5ab81110\">Cinderella<\/span>-themed event at a Disney hotel, for example, she met a man dressed as <span id=\"tooltip5521a5ab814f9\">Prince Charming<\/span>. He <span id=\"tooltip5521a5ab818e1\">bowed<\/span> and said, &#8220;How do you do?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>My niece responded: &#8220;How do you do what?&#8221; (<span id=\"tooltip5521a5ab81cc9\">Note<\/span> to <span id=\"tooltip5521a5ab820b1\">would-be<\/span> princesses: the correct answer is to repeat &#8220;How do you do?&#8221;)<\/p>\n<p>Cinderella herself was there as well. She&#8217;s one of the <a title=\"Disney Princess (Wikipedia)\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Disney_Princess\" target=\"_blank\">&#8220;Disney princesses&#8221;<\/a>, a growing <span id=\"tooltip5521a5ab82499\">franchise<\/span> aimed at very young girls and their parents&#8217; <span id=\"tooltip5521a5ab82880\">pocketbooks<\/span>. The &#8220;princesses&#8221; are models who are hired to represent the princess figures in various legends that Disney has made into animated films \u2014 Pocahontas, Mulan, <span id=\"tooltip5521a5ab82c69\">Snow White<\/span> and six others.<\/p>\n<p>Once you find the Disney princesses, it&#8217;s hard <i>not<\/i> to find them. They appear at the Disney theme parks \u2014 you can have breakfast with them in Cinderella&#8217;s castle in Orlando. They greet passengers and pose for photos on Disney <span id=\"tooltip5521a5ab83050\">cruise<\/span> ships in the <span id=\"tooltip5521a5ab83439\">Caribbean<\/span>. They <span id=\"tooltip5521a5ab83820\">stroll<\/span> along the beach on a private island owned by Disney. And in a very expensive shopping area at Walt Disney World, &#8220;<span id=\"tooltip5521a5ab83c08\">fairy godmothers<\/span>&#8221; create the next generation of princesses by styling little girls&#8217; hair, giving them little crowns, <span id=\"tooltip5521a5ab83ff0\">applying<\/span> light make-up and glitter and painting their fingernails.<\/p>\n<p>I think this might be crossing some <span id=\"tooltip5521a5ab843d9\">boundaries<\/span>, <span id=\"tooltip5521a5ab847c0\">given that<\/span> some of the kids are only three years old, but my sister put it into context: &#8220;It&#8217;s sort of like Halloween,&#8221; she explained.<\/p>\n<p>My niece takes it more seriously than that, though. She wears her Cinderella dress whenever she can. Asked by one of the Disney <span id=\"tooltip5521a5ab84ba9\">staffers<\/span> whether she&#8217;d like to be a princess, however, she said no.<\/p>\n<p>No?<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;No. I want to be <i>queen<\/i> of the princesses,&#8221; she said <span id=\"tooltip5521a5ab84f8f\">primly<\/span>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Every little girl wants to be a princess \u2014 and my five-year-old niece is no exception. If she had her way (which she often does), she&#8217;d wear a fancy dress and a tiara every day. It goes without saying that she&#8217;d always be the center of attention. 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