{"id":723,"date":"2011-02-23T18:02:40","date_gmt":"2011-02-23T16:02:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/fascinating-america.com\/blog\/?p=723"},"modified":"2015-04-21T12:51:17","modified_gmt":"2015-04-21T10:51:17","slug":"the-best-neighbor-you-could-ask-for","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/fascinating-america.com\/blog\/the-best-neighbor-you-could-ask-for\/","title":{"rendered":"The best neighbor you could ask for"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Eight years ago this Sunday, the child in us died, and we were all forced to grow up a little bit.<\/p>\n<p>That child was Fred Rogers \u2014 psychologist, musician, <span id=\"tooltip5520b0be43f8f\">minister<\/span>, TV star. For 33 years, <a title=\"Mister Rogers at PBS Kids\" href=\"http:\/\/pbskids.org\/rogers\/\" target=\"_blank\"><i>Mister Rogers&#8217; Neighborhood<\/i><\/a> was the show that everyone in America watched when they were little.<\/p>\n<p>Rogers understood children like nobody else. He talked directly to the camera, imagining an individual and rather <span id=\"tooltip5520b0be44376\">shy<\/span> child at the other end. He spoke like a child \u2014 slowly and in simple words. He also knew what children value most: to be listened to. Children were <i>persons<\/i> to him.<\/p>\n<p>The name of the show said a lot. &#8220;Friends&#8221; were mentioned, but &#8220;neighbors&#8221; were almost more important. You don&#8217;t have to be friends with everybody around you, he seemed to say, but it&#8217;s important to be a good neighbor.<\/p>\n<p>The show cleverly connected the real world of adults with the fantasy world of children. Each of the nearly 900 episodes began with Rogers arriving home, singing &#8220;It&#8217;s a Beautiful Day in the Neighborhood&#8221; as he hung up his suit coat and put on a sweater and tennis shoes.<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube-nocookie.com\/embed\/C5Mz0p0kgc4\" width=\"420\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>Before long, it was time to visit &#8220;the Neighborhood of <span id=\"tooltip5520b0be4475f\">Make-Believe<\/span>&#8220;. This was a magical kingdom ruled by the <span id=\"tooltip5520b0be44b48\">capricious<\/span> and senile King Friday XIII and inhabited by various puppets (and a few humans) with distinct personalities and points of view. Rogers wrote the whole script and did most of the puppet voices, including enough running gags, hidden <span id=\"tooltip5520b0be44f2f\">puns<\/span> and life lessons to make the show interesting to adults as well. The stories contained morals that Rogers then discussed when the scene <span id=\"tooltip5520b0be45317\">dissolved<\/span>.<\/p>\n<p>In other segments with <span id=\"tooltip5520b0be456fe\">on-location<\/span> interviews, Rogers showed that the real world is just as interesting as make-believe. He had experts explain how guitars are made, what happens to <span id=\"tooltip5520b0be45ae8\">garbage<\/span> after it&#8217;s thrown away, what dinosaur bones represent, and hundreds of other things. At times, he even dealt with very difficult subjects like <span id=\"tooltip5520b0be45ece\">divorce<\/span>.<\/p>\n<p>Rogers felt it was <span id=\"tooltip5520b0be462b7\">utterly<\/span> important for children to understand their feelings and express them. His biggest gift to six-year-old viewers was their own <span id=\"tooltip5520b0be4669f\">self-confidence<\/span>. &#8220;You are special,&#8221; he told them. &#8220;You are the only one like you.&#8221; He also said, over and over, &#8220;I like you just the way you are.&#8221; And we liked him just the way he was.<\/p>\n<p>Rogers died on February 27, 2003, aged 74. A small shrine in the arrivals area of the Pittsburgh airport keeps his memory alive.<\/p>\n<p>In 2008, CNN gave <a title=\"15 reasons why Mister Rogers was the best neighbor ever (CNN)\" href=\"http:\/\/articles.cnn.com\/2008-07-28\/living\/mf.mrrogers.neighbor_1_mr-rogers-neighborhood-fred-rogers-koko-tv-station?_s=PM:LIVING\" target=\"_blank\">15 reasons<\/a> why Mister Rogers was the best neighbor ever. We agree with all of them.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Eight years ago this Sunday, the child in us died, and we were all forced to grow up a little bit. That child was Fred Rogers \u2014 psychologist, musician, minister, TV star. For 33 years, Mister Rogers&#8217; Neighborhood was the show that everyone in America watched when they were little. Rogers understood children like nobody else. 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