{"id":367,"date":"2012-04-25T11:06:35","date_gmt":"2012-04-25T09:06:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/fascinating-america.com\/blog\/?p=367"},"modified":"2015-04-04T11:35:49","modified_gmt":"2015-04-04T09:35:49","slug":"what-you-cant-do-in-america","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/fascinating-america.com\/blog\/what-you-cant-do-in-america\/","title":{"rendered":"What you can&#8217;t do in America"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Last week, the government of Hessen invited me to talk to a group of German students who were going to spend a semester in America. I talked about stereotypes and the way citizens of our two countries often see each other. Other speakers talked about visa requirements and the American university system. The most interesting part, however, was when the returning students were asked to give their own advice to their <span id=\"tooltip551e575bbe062\">successors<\/span>.<\/p>\n<p>The organizers had suggested quite a few topics, about which there was indeed a lot of discussion: <span id=\"tooltip551e575bbe3f1\">course loads<\/span>, <span id=\"tooltip551e575bbe7a8\">dormitory<\/span> life, <span id=\"tooltip551e575bbeb91\">meal plans<\/span>, and <span id=\"tooltip551e575bbef77\">transferring<\/span> money. But there was one topic that the returning students kept bringing up again and again: alcohol.<\/p>\n<p>On this subject, the differences between our two countries could not be greater. In Germany, in the last two years or so, drunken 16-year-olds have been wandering the streets with open bottles of beer in their hands. Especially in places where it&#8217;s not allowed, such as buses and trains, the alcoholics of tomorrow are often seen <span id=\"tooltip551e575bbf35e\">flaunting<\/span> their <span id=\"tooltip551e575bbf746\">impropriety<\/span>.<\/p>\n<p>Try that in America and you will get arrested \u2014 on as many as three <span id=\"tooltip551e575bbfb47\">counts<\/span>.<\/p>\n<p>First, no one under the age of 21 is allowed to drink any alcohol in any public place. Second, no one is allowed to carry an open bottle of alcohol in public. (This is why <span id=\"tooltip551e575bc06ee\">derelicts<\/span> hide their bottles in a paper bag.) Third, in many places it&#8217;s possible to be arrested for being &#8220;drunk and <span id=\"tooltip551e575bc0b85\">disorderly<\/span>&#8220;. Whether you are really disorderly or just loud and <span id=\"tooltip551e575bc0eba\">obnoxious<\/span> is something the cops will decide.<\/p>\n<p>In most states, you can buy alcohol in a supermarket, but in some, like Pennsylvania, you have to go to a special store. A sign next to the <span id=\"tooltip551e575bc12a2\">cashier<\/span> might read, &#8220;If you are lucky enough to look younger than 35, we have the right to <span id=\"tooltip551e575bc1684\">card you<\/span>.&#8221; Once you&#8217;ve bought the alcohol, it has to go in the <span id=\"tooltip551e575bc1a6d\">trunk<\/span> of the car, <span id=\"tooltip551e575bc1e5a\">presumably<\/span> to remove any <span id=\"tooltip551e575bc2241\">temptation<\/span> for the driver.<\/p>\n<p>On <span id=\"tooltip551e575bc2677\">college campuses<\/span>, things get complicated because some of the students are old enough to drink and some aren&#8217;t. If a group of students go to a restaurant and any one of them orders alcohol, the whole group will have to show <span id=\"tooltip551e575bc2a26\">ID<\/span>. The <span id=\"tooltip551e575bc2dfb\">wait staff<\/span> will keep an eye on things to try to prevent anyone from <span id=\"tooltip551e575bc31df\">swapping<\/span> drinks. They have to do this: the police could show up at any time.<\/p>\n<p>A student I talked to explained that, in Wisconsin, it was possible for a student over 21 to have alcohol in a room that was shared with a student under 21 \u2014 but the bottle had to be in the over-21&#8217;s part of the room (in a box under the bed, for example) and at no time could the alcohol be visible to the under-21.<\/p>\n<p><a title=\"None for the road (Mike Pilewski)\" href=\"\/blog\/none-for-the-road\" target=\"_blank\">In an earlier column<\/a>, I suggested some reasons why America is so strict about this. Here are a few more.<\/p>\n<p>Part of the American tradition began with religious groups that followed unusually strict rules of moral behavior. We had the Puritans and Quakers. Today we still have the Amish and Mennonites. But even in many &#8220;mainstream&#8221; Protestant communities of the Midwest and South, so-called <a title=\"Blue laws (Wikipedia)\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Blue_laws\" target=\"_blank\">&#8220;blue laws&#8221;<\/a> that forbid the sale of alcohol on Sundays have long been a tradition. Among the <span id=\"tooltip551e575bc35c7\">devout<\/span>, alcohol is believed to bring out the worst in people.<\/p>\n<p>In some cases it really does. Native Americans have a genetic <span id=\"tooltip551e575bc39ad\">predisposition<\/span> to alcoholism, and for this reason, alcohol is forbidden on a number of reservations.<\/p>\n<p>The main reason, though, is that in America, everybody drives a car. The minimum age for that is generally 16, or even lower in some <span id=\"tooltip551e575bc3dfc\">rural<\/span> states. While Germans get their <span id=\"tooltip551e575bc417e\">initial<\/span> experiences with alcohol out of the way before learning to drive, Americans get in plenty of driving practice before they start raising their glasses. I think it&#8217;s good, and possibly <span id=\"tooltip551e575bc4568\">deliberate<\/span>, that one doesn&#8217;t have to <span id=\"tooltip551e575bc494f\">accustom oneself<\/span> to both things at the same age.<\/p>\n<p>Still&#8230; if alcohol was the number-one topic among the students in Hessen, driving had to be topic number two.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Last week, the government of Hessen invited me to talk to a group of German students who were going to spend a semester in America. I talked about stereotypes and the way citizens of our two countries often see each other. 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