{"id":305,"date":"2011-03-16T07:19:08","date_gmt":"2011-03-16T05:19:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/fascinating-america.com\/blog\/?p=305"},"modified":"2015-04-03T07:26:16","modified_gmt":"2015-04-03T05:26:16","slug":"its-time-to-leave-him-dear","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/fascinating-america.com\/blog\/its-time-to-leave-him-dear\/","title":{"rendered":"It&#8217;s time to leave him, dear"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Women with <span id=\"tooltip551cd7b23ceeb\">abusive<\/span> husbands make all sorts of <span id=\"tooltip551cd7b23d2d3\">excuses<\/span> for them: &#8220;He&#8217;s normally not like that.&#8221; &#8220;He&#8217;s sorry.&#8221; &#8220;He&#8217;s trying to change.&#8221; &#8220;He <span id=\"tooltip551cd7b23d6c1\">provides<\/span> for me.&#8221; &#8220;I don&#8217;t have to worry about things.&#8221; &#8220;I&#8217;d never survive without him.&#8221; &#8220;There&#8217;s no alternative.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>(Men can experience this, too, as the target of <span id=\"tooltip551cd7b23dd4d\">emotional abuse<\/span>. The <span id=\"tooltip551cd7b23e120\">scars<\/span> are on the inside.)<\/p>\n<p>We can&#8217;t really blame the victims for their <span id=\"tooltip551cd7b23e2d1\">flawed<\/span> logic. But at what point do you take the kids and leave? How much of a black eye do you need to <span id=\"tooltip551cd7b23e65d\">get the message<\/span>? When do you realize that <a title=\"If the Japanese can\u2019t build a safe reactor, who can? (Anne Applebaum in The Washington Post)\" href=\"http:\/\/www.washingtonpost.com\/opinions\/if_the_japanese_cant_build_a_safe_reactor_who_can\/2011\/03\/14\/ABCJvuV_story.html?wprss=rss_politics\" target=\"_blank\">your own safety<\/a> is more important than anything else?<\/p>\n<p>America, Europe and Asia have been married to nuclear power for some time now, and each has gotten a black eye from it: at <b>Mayak<\/b> (Kyshtym, Russia), 1957; <b>Sellafield<\/b> (Seascale, England), 1957; <b>Three Mile Island<\/b> (Harrisburg, Pennsylvania), 1979; <b>Chernobyl<\/b> (Pripyat, Ukraine), 1986; and <b>Fukushima<\/b> (Japan), 2011.<\/p>\n<p>I can name a further example \u2014 one that I saw with my own eyes.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/fascinating-america.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/pilewski-03wa377_cr.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-307 size-medium\" src=\"http:\/\/fascinating-america.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/pilewski-03wa377_cr-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"http:\/\/fascinating-america.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/pilewski-03wa377_cr-300x225.jpg 300w, http:\/\/fascinating-america.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/pilewski-03wa377_cr-150x113.jpg 150w, http:\/\/fascinating-america.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/pilewski-03wa377_cr.jpg 800w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>The <b>Hanford<\/b> Research <span id=\"tooltip551cd7b23ea80\">Facility<\/span>, near the city of Richland in Washington state, produced plutonium for the atomic bombs that were dropped on Japan. Routine operations <span id=\"tooltip551cd7b23eec1\">leaked<\/span> a lot of radiation. So did some foolish experiments, like <span id=\"tooltip551cd7b23f28f\">releasing<\/span> radioactive <span id=\"tooltip551cd7b23f5fb\">iodine<\/span> into the air to see how far it would spread. Sixty years later, much of the area is still <span id=\"tooltip551cd7b23fcce\">contaminated<\/span>.<\/p>\n<p>The part of <a title=\"Hanford Site (Wikipedia)\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Hanford_Site\" target=\"_blank\">the property<\/a> closest to Richland has an operating nuclear reactor that <span id=\"tooltip551cd7b2403e3\">conforms to<\/span> modern safety standards. But the Hanford site is <span id=\"tooltip551cd7b24059c\">extensive<\/span> \u2014 1,500 square kilometers \u2014 and you can see quite a bit more on a boat ride down the Columbia River alongside it.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/fascinating-america.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/pilewski-03wa373_cr.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-308 size-medium\" src=\"http:\/\/fascinating-america.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/pilewski-03wa373_cr-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"http:\/\/fascinating-america.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/pilewski-03wa373_cr-300x225.jpg 300w, http:\/\/fascinating-america.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/pilewski-03wa373_cr-150x113.jpg 150w, http:\/\/fascinating-america.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/pilewski-03wa373_cr.jpg 800w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>The first sight was a ghost town \u2014 buildings <span id=\"tooltip551cd7b240983\">abandoned<\/span> because they&#8217;re radioactive. Signs warned of a <span id=\"tooltip551cd7b240d67\">hazard<\/span> that can&#8217;t be seen, smelled, or tasted. Then I saw men in &#8220;<span id=\"tooltip551cd7b24115b\">banana suits<\/span>&#8221; <span id=\"tooltip551cd7b241541\">shoveling<\/span> <span id=\"tooltip551cd7b241928\">topsoil<\/span> into the back of a truck \u2014 the only known method for decontaminating an area (even such a large one). Further along was the sight of four enormous reactors that had been <span id=\"tooltip551cd7b241d08\">sealed in concrete<\/span>.<\/p>\n<p>Although this area was harmful to humans, nature didn&#8217;t seem to <span id=\"tooltip551cd7b2420f0\">mind<\/span>. In fact, it was <span id=\"tooltip551cd7b2424d6\">teeming with<\/span> birds, fish and animals that had grown to a very large size, because humans hadn&#8217;t been able to disturb them.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/fascinating-america.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/pilewski-03wa390.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-309 size-medium\" src=\"http:\/\/fascinating-america.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/pilewski-03wa390-300x226.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"226\" srcset=\"http:\/\/fascinating-america.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/pilewski-03wa390-300x226.jpg 300w, http:\/\/fascinating-america.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/pilewski-03wa390-150x113.jpg 150w, http:\/\/fascinating-america.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/pilewski-03wa390.jpg 798w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>Stranger, though, was the attitude of the local people. A man <span id=\"tooltip551cd7b2428c0\">showed off<\/span> the giant fish he&#8217;d caught within sight of the reactors. Other people were walking around on the site of the ghost town or even camping (illegally) on the Hanford side of the river. The opposite <span id=\"tooltip551cd7b242ca6\">shore<\/span> had a large <span id=\"tooltip551cd7b24308f\">vineyard<\/span>.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;We live here, and life <span id=\"tooltip551cd7b243476\">goes on<\/span>,&#8221; one of the PR ladies from Richland explained to me. Hanford is trying to correct the mistakes of the past by leading a national project to convert liquid nuclear waste into glass blocks. <span id=\"tooltip551cd7b243860\">Billions<\/span> of dollars have been spent to remove and bury the topsoil, so as to restore the natural environment. And with the old reactors &#8220;cocooned&#8221;, no further radiation should escape.<\/p>\n<p><b>&#8220;Cocoon&#8221;: there&#8217;s a word for you.<\/b> As though one day a beautiful <span id=\"tooltip551cd7b243c46\">butterfly<\/span> will <span id=\"tooltip551cd7b2453bf\">emerge<\/span>. The German <i>Sarkophag<\/i> is even more cynical \u2014 as though you could open it up in a few thousand years&#8217; time and find <span id=\"tooltip551cd7b2457ce\">King Tut<\/span>&#8216;s <span id=\"tooltip551cd7b245c47\">treasure<\/span> inside.<\/p>\n<p>I love how German is so much more <span id=\"tooltip551cd7b245f73\">succinct<\/span> than English, too. You can express the whole argument in one word: <b><i>Atomausstieg<\/i><\/b>. Think about it: it&#8217;s like getting off a vehicle that&#8217;s done all right in bringing us to where we are, but that we can&#8217;t <span id=\"tooltip551cd7b24635e\">steer<\/span> and that&#8217;s <span id=\"tooltip551cd7b246782\">ultimately<\/span> going somewhere we don&#8217;t want to go. If the regular <i>Ausstieg<\/i> isn&#8217;t enough, there&#8217;s also the <i>Notausstieg<\/i>, or emergency exit. If disaster <span id=\"tooltip551cd7b246b2e\">strikes<\/span> and you&#8217;re <span id=\"tooltip551cd7b246f11\">trapped<\/span> in a <span id=\"tooltip551cd7b24734c\">subway<\/span> tunnel, you can get to a <span id=\"tooltip551cd7b247778\">shaft<\/span> and climb up a ladder, leaving behind that dark place as you see the light.<\/p>\n<p>Germany may now have seen the light. Perhaps she&#8217;ll even <span id=\"tooltip551cd7b247b06\">file for divorce<\/span>. What will it take to convince America?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Women with abusive husbands make all sorts of excuses for them: &#8220;He&#8217;s normally not like that.&#8221; &#8220;He&#8217;s sorry.&#8221; &#8220;He&#8217;s trying to change.&#8221; &#8220;He provides for me.&#8221; &#8220;I don&#8217;t have to worry about things.&#8221; &#8220;I&#8217;d never survive without him.&#8221; &#8220;There&#8217;s no alternative.&#8221; (Men can experience this, too, as the target of emotional abuse. The scars are on the inside.) 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