{"id":195,"date":"2011-01-19T10:41:30","date_gmt":"2011-01-19T08:41:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/fascinating-america.com\/blog\/?p=195"},"modified":"2015-04-25T18:13:56","modified_gmt":"2015-04-25T16:13:56","slug":"whats-in-a-name-quite-a-lot-actually","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/fascinating-america.com\/blog\/whats-in-a-name-quite-a-lot-actually\/","title":{"rendered":"What&#8217;s in a name? Quite a lot, actually"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>If you&#8217;re ever in Pagosa Springs or Creede, Colorado, go to a Mexican restaurant named <a title=\"Kip's Grill menu\" href=\"http:\/\/kipsgrill.com\/menu\/\" target=\"_blank\">Kip&#8217;s Grill<\/a> and order the most expensive thing on the menu. Then tell them that Mr. Pilewski sent you.<\/p>\n<p>The specialty of the house, number 9 on the menu, is called The Pilewski. It&#8217;s three <span id=\"tooltip551ae5d423947\">flour<\/span> tortillas, <span id=\"tooltip551ae5d423d2e\">stuffed<\/span> with <span id=\"tooltip551ae5d42411b\">pork<\/span> <span id=\"tooltip551ae5d424518\">barbacoa<\/span>, <span id=\"tooltip551ae5d424c9b\">provolone cheese<\/span> and <span id=\"tooltip551ae5d424cd5\">chipotle<\/span>, and topped with <span id=\"tooltip551ae5d4251a2\">chile verde<\/span>, <span id=\"tooltip551ae5d4257d7\">shredded<\/span> cheese, avocado and jalape\u00f1o peppers.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/fascinating-america.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/the_pilewski.png\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-197\" src=\"http:\/\/fascinating-america.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/the_pilewski.png\" alt=\"the_pilewski\" width=\"342\" height=\"141\" srcset=\"http:\/\/fascinating-america.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/the_pilewski.png 342w, http:\/\/fascinating-america.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/the_pilewski-150x62.png 150w, http:\/\/fascinating-america.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/the_pilewski-300x124.png 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 342px) 100vw, 342px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s exactly what I would order in any restaurant \u2014 <span id=\"tooltip551ae5d42588b\">hot<\/span> and <span id=\"tooltip551ae5d425c73\">spicy<\/span>, too. You could say <span id=\"tooltip551ae5d42605a\">it&#8217;s got my name all over it<\/span>. And so now I&#8217;m famous! I&#8217;m <span id=\"tooltip551ae5d426442\">a legend in my own lunchtime<\/span>.<\/p>\n<p><a title=\"Idylwilde.com\" href=\"http:\/\/idylwilde.com\/wordpress\/2010\/07\/2136\/\" target=\"_blank\">Travelers to the area<\/a> wrote on their blog that<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>We enjoyed a tasty evening at Kip&#8217;s Grill, where #9, The Pilewski, was the crowd favorite.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Fairness requires me to mention the following, though. The <span id=\"tooltip551ae5d42682b\">dish<\/span> was named \u2014 as far as I know \u2014 not for your favorite columnist, but more likely for a <span id=\"tooltip551ae5d426c11\">second cousin<\/span> of mine who lives in Pagosa Springs. A cousin of ours became aware of it when he got a postcard from his neighbors, who had eaten at the restaurant.<\/p>\n<p>The American side of our <span id=\"tooltip551ae5d426ff8\">extended family<\/span> is quite small, and because we have such an unusual name, we lay collective ownership to things like this. It&#8217;s our reward for not having changed or &#8220;simplified&#8221; our name when we came to America \u2014 even though many Americans have trouble spelling and pronouncing it.<\/p>\n<h2>Change your name, change your history<\/h2>\n<p>Some of our relatives did <span id=\"tooltip551ae5d4273e1\">cave in<\/span> and change &#8220;Pilewski&#8221; to &#8220;Polaski&#8221;. Others changed &#8220;Krusevicius&#8221; to &#8220;Krush&#8221; and &#8220;Walentowski&#8221; to &#8220;Wallen&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m happy to be in Germany, where people can spell my name \u2014 but when I tell them I&#8217;m American, I hear, &#8220;Pilewski: That&#8217;s not an American name.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>My answer is always the same: &#8220;You mean it&#8217;s not an <i>English<\/i> name. <i>Every<\/i> name is an American name.&#8221; Remember that.<\/p>\n<p>Our story was the same as that of most Americans. Our <span id=\"tooltip551ae5d4277ca\">ancestors<\/span> came to the New World to get away from <span id=\"tooltip551ae5d427bb2\">poverty<\/span>, overcrowding and family <span id=\"tooltip551ae5d427f99\">squabbles<\/span>, and find new opportunities in a nation of immigrants.<\/p>\n<p>But the name is what connects us to the Old World. Before we were <span id=\"tooltip551ae5d428382\">peasants<\/span>, we were <span id=\"tooltip551ae5d42876a\">nobles<\/span>, rewarded by the Polish king for our help in fighting the Germans in the 14th century. On the land he gave us, we built <span id=\"tooltip551ae5d428b51\">estates<\/span> and a <span id=\"tooltip551ae5d428f3a\">fortified<\/span> settlement. The name &#8220;Pilewski&#8221; means &#8220;someone from the fortified area&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>How nice that we didn&#8217;t change our name to please somebody else. We&#8217;d never have known that. Nor would we have found the <span id=\"tooltip551ae5d429323\">bond<\/span> to each other that our small extended family has.<\/p>\n<p>There are a lot of Polaskis out there, but you won&#8217;t find them on the menu.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you&#8217;re ever in Pagosa Springs or Creede, Colorado, go to a Mexican restaurant named Kip&#8217;s Grill and order the most expensive thing on the menu. Then tell them that Mr. Pilewski sent you. The specialty of the house, number 9 on the menu, is called The Pilewski. 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